Wedding, an auspicious occasion in your life. It is a day when you hold the hand of your life partner, it is a day when you get attached to your better half, and it is a day when you promise to love, care, and bonding for the rest of your life. All these things make up this day more special one. Moreover, after wedding, not only the life of a woman but also the life of a man to changes.
New Life starts
The wedding is not just an event of one day, but it is a celebration of love, emotions, bonding and care. We get together to celebrate the love, the warmth and to deliver our good wishes and blessings to the couple who are stepping ahead into the next phase of their life.
So here you can see that how the life of the men changes after marriage:
Your next day after wedding
Next Phase of life (Marriage)
You might have heard that, once you are married, your life will change. Yes, this is true, the next day after your wedding, when you wake up, you wake up with responsibilities. Responsibilities to love and care for your partner, responsibilities to manage your family, responsibilities to earn more for a ‘Happy Married Life’.
Along with all these responsibilities, you will get a partner, who will love you more than herself, who will take care of you more than she takes care of herself, who will put your priorities first as compared to hers. So, this is going to make up something very beautiful for you, and this is how your life will take up a sharp turn.!
Your Mornings gonna change:
Husband taking Care
Before the wedding, if you were staying with your family then those days are gone when your mom will switch off the fan to wake you up in the morning.!J You will now wake up with a morning kiss from your better half. If you used to go to your wash basin for brushing your teeth, with half eyes open and a half yet closed, then your morning is going to changes. You will now be looking out for a nice romantic line to say her ‘I Love You.!’
So with these funny things that are going to stop in your life and some more things full of fun and love are to take place, you will now have a blurred idea of how awesome your life is going to be. While you are going to your office, there would be someone preparing your lunch full of love and care. Believe me; it will taste sweeter as compared to the lunch cooked by your maid! These are the small things that will change your life and will make it a better one!
Wife preparing lunch
Your days are going to change completely:
While you will be at the office, now you will try to avoid the extra hours or overtime at the office. There will be a pure soul who will be waiting for you at your home with no other expectation than to spend more time with you. When you will reach home, there would be smiling face at the doorstep to receive you, which will make you forget all the tensions, all the frustrations and will make you feel fresh.
Your nights are going to change completely, with your loved one. There will be demands to go for an ice cream, to go for movies, to go on outings and a lot more. You can just imagine, how better your life would be when there is someone who cares for you more than she cares for herself. Along with these lovely changes in your life, there would be some points that you will miss after your marriage.
Couple enjoys
Losing a touch with your friends and focusing more on family, ah! That sounds bad.
One of them is losing the daily touch with your friends. You will now not be able to get in touch with your friends daily. You might be going daily at outings with your friends at night but then after your marriage, it would be very difficult for you to spare time for your friends. People generally admit that they will find enough time for themselves and time to spend with their friends but in real life, this is not going to happen. With the wedding, there comes up a lot of responsibilities, which will take up most of your time.
The most tiresome part would be to attend different functions and to see to it that you remember the birthday of your wife’s uncle’s daughter and if you forget that then you are gone! Soon after your wedding, you will be invited to a lot of functions from your wife’s family like their weddings, their birthday celebrations and what not!
After Wedding family functions
This may enforce you to change the way you spend your leisure time:
After the wedding, you need to have a good report with each other and need to understand each other well. Let’s say your hobby is playing tennis in your leisure time, your wife might not like tennis at all. She may be fond of roaming around or may want to go on a long drive, while you have plans for tennis. These are the situations that if handled well can make your married life go on the right track. It is never about the differences in thoughts, it is always about understanding each other, it is always about sharing the similarities and respecting the differences.
Long Drive
You may not always select your hobby or your favorite way to spend your leisure time; you need to even give equal time doing things your partner likes. Slowly and gradually as you understand each other better, you will start loving each other’s hobbies over your own and then it would be fun spending your leisure time together.
Couple playing Game
This is how there would be a mixture of some positive and some challenging things that are going to change in your life, soon after your wedding. However, it is going to be a perfect mixture of understanding, love, care, affection and bonding. These changes in your life will prove to be very easy to tackle if there is a strong understanding between the both. The only thing that matters is that you should know well when you need to act childish to have unlimited fun and when you need to act with the maturity to save your relations.
Couple having fun together
These minute things that will come up your way, soon after the wedding are not difficult to handle, but you have to opt for the right way. You will have to learn to care and respect your partner and to make her wishes your first priority and rest of the things should come after that. You always need to think how your action or your words will affect your partner. If you manage to take care of these little things, believe me, you are going to lead a very happy and a lovely married life.
Happy Marriage Life